Thursday, October 7, 2010

St. Vincent Pallotti Center!!!

St Vincent Pallotti Center recently released an annual volunteer directory. The Connections 2011 shows volunteers information about over 75 programs to volunteer with. There is also a directory online where you can search around and find the program that you would want to volunteer with the most! The purpose of the St. Vincent Pallotti Center is to “inspire volunteers during their exploration of service through Catholic-based organizations.”

Volunteering is a huge part of the calling of any Christian. We are called to serve. Jesus was a servant. Even before He died, he washed the feet of His apostles. Service is a calling that each one of us must embrace. Finding a few places to volunteer at, like the ones in the Connections 2011 released by the St Vincent Pallotti Center, especially at a young age, can lead into life-long service projects. Finding a few specific organizations that can rely on your help allows for these organizations to continue to grow and help those who are in need.

Whether you feel most comfortable helping children, women in crisis pregnancies, those who are poor, those in prison, marriages, or any other group of people who are in need, all organizations rely on those who generously give of their time or money or prayer to help them reach the ever increasing need of those around us.

I challenge you to find at least one organization, then volunteer for them. Start out with once a month if you need to. Then challenge yourself to increase that time every few months. I guarantee you will find that helping others will give you meaning in your life. And you will continue to look at your challenges in life, and still find that you can find help when you need it, and you will be there for others when they are trying to overcome their own challenges!

Go to www.pallotticenter.org , and find a organization that you can help, right now!

Friday, September 17, 2010

Reel Love Challenge

Marriage is a wonderful vocation that I have been blessed enough to embark on. After getting married in November 2009, my life has changed a lot! Because I am young, my marriage is often questioned. Even though at times getting married young can be difficult, it also has been a great blessing. 

Through each difficult moment, I am not alone. I have my husband with me to get through any obstacle we come across. 
Luckily, I recently graduated from college, but before being married meant that I needed to work a lot as well as go to school. Even though this often made me tired, being married to my wonderful husband enabled me to know that it was all for a purpose greater than myself.
In my opinion, marriage is a life long commitment. My husband and I vowed on our wedding day to love each other, for richer or poorer, sickness or health, until death. This is something we take very seriously. We talked long and hard about these vows way before we were even engaged. Marriage is not something we just jumped into, it is something we hold in high esteem. Marriage represents a love so strong that it is life-giving. 
And as my husband and I have recently experienced, love is called to bring life. And that life we have created will have to be named. And as that life continues to grow in me, and our family continues to grow as our marriage continues, I cannot wait to find out all of the rest of life's ups and downs that we will go through together!

I always love to see film contests that allow college students and young adults to voice their opinion! I think it is important for everyone to become involved and get together to make such great projects!
I'm very excited to see a film contest like Reel Love Challenge because I think that life-long love is possible! Do you?

Check out this Commercial. (Click Here)
Then go visit their facebook page: ReelLoveChallenge

Monday, September 6, 2010

College is

I have a new article up on IIBloom!!!
This article is dedicated to the AMAZING Class of 2010 and Professors from John Paul the Great Catholic University!!!!


College is...

Monday, August 23, 2010

Service

"Love cannot remain by itself -- it has no meaning.
      Love has to be put into action, and that action is service." - Mother Teresa

There is no way that one can serve with out love, and as Mother Teresa says, the action of love is service. Because love is selfless, it only seeks to help others. When you serve others, you give your life meaning. Your actions become more than just actions. They become part of a story, a legacy, a way of life. 
There is much more to service than just helping others, because if you are only helping others but do not have love, then it is only an action. With love, it becomes more than that. Love in action is a way of life. Giving of one's self, without holding back can be difficult, but well worth it! You never know which act of service turns someone's life around. Or gives them hope when they needed.


Love. Action. Service. Always.

Monday, August 16, 2010

Motherhood!

I will start out this post by saying that I am not a mother yet!

However, I have had the best example of what a mother should be like! After 22 years of marriage, my mom has had 9 kids! She has been open to God's will in everything that she is given from Him. Like our Mother Mary in Heaven, she said Yes... to all the challenges & hardships! 
Because my brothers have an undiagnosed condition, she has always learned as much as she could about anything and everything related to their condition. She fought to make sure that the public schools would let my brothers into a regular education classes! Time after time, she fights for my brothers and the rest of our family so that we could all have a wonderful life!!!
She always has energy and is ready to go....but most of all, she has instilled in all of her children a love for God and a strong faith... one that continues to challenge us and that we continue to want to know more about. I only wish that I could be as wonderful as a mother as my mom is! Always with the support of my dad, my mom has been a great example of faith and love the way that Mother Mary shows us. 

Monday, August 9, 2010

Girlfriends!!!

I love that the word girlfriend could have so many meanings. I'm sure the first meaning that most people jump to is the girlfriend/boyfriend relationship. So, I'll start there.
Being a girlfriend is a key part of the courtship time. Courting is important because it is time used for two people to decide if God has called them to marry each other, not to marriage in general, but to each other. It is important when you become a girlfriend not to be completely attached to this other person. Family & close friends should be an integral part of this process. If you are still in school, you should encourage each other in your studies. In your work, this relationship should also lead to better work habits. It is also important that when you become someone's girlfriend, your relationship with your family & friends shouldn't suffer. If this other person is making these central relationships suffer, you should really reconsider what the strain on your other relationships are? Is it that you spend to much time alone, only with each other, for example.
Your relationship with God should also become stronger. This other person should be bringing you closer to Christ. Praying with each other and for each other is a crucial part of deciding what God's will for your life is.


Remember, girlfriends can turn into fiances, who turn into wives. You want to make sure that your relationship is healthy so that if you decide it is God's will to marry each other, it is a relationship that is healthy and centered around Christ.
(Right Photo Credit: True Image Studio,          Irvine, CA)

The other type of girlfriends are your closest girls!!! It's important to make time for your girlfriends. Finding women to keep you accountable to your dreams and goals, prayer life, love life, and just to kick back is important for a balanced life! Even after you are married, it is important to make time for the girls in your life. If you are having a hard time finding good girlfriends, look into women groups in your church. Also, joining clubs & organizations for sports or other hobbies can also be a great way to meet women who enjoy the same things that you do!

 No matter what, girlfriends are important in everyone's life!!!!!!



Sunday, August 8, 2010

The Wedding Day!!

Why did we go on with the wedding right after my brother's death?
Find out!

Iibloom: The Wedding Day

Enjoy :D

Monday, August 2, 2010

Attachment & Abandonment to Divine Providence

I truly believe that these two principles go hand in hand. Attachments do not allow you to abandon your own will and follow God's will for you.

Attachment can grab you and take hold way in ways that you don't even know it has taken you. Throughout life, our attachments to things change depending on our maturity. As we grow up we are to learn the self-sacrificing techniques in order to become less attached to worldly belongings. During lent, we are given a time to acknowledge our attachments. But, we need to be aware of the things we are more inclined to become attached to in order to keep it in check throughout the year.

Divine Providence can only truly shine through when we have chosen to sacrifice our own selfish wants into a selfless love geared to helping others. In Col 3:1-5, 9-11, we are called to deny our own will and follow Christ. We must be in control of our passions, our passions cannot control us. Passions are not inherently good or bad, and that is something that we must remember. It is if we let go of our passions, use them as an excuse to do what is the easy way out, which is not necessarily the route that will lead us to our ultimate goal. If our decisions are solely made on feelings we receive through our passion without relying on our reason to help control those passions, we become erratic. However, if we stay away from attachments, we will be able to see God's will in our lives more clearly, even though that doesn't necessarily mean it will be easier.

Friday, July 16, 2010

Looking Back - Similarities between High School & College

As College Graduation approaches, I have been looking back into the last few weeks before my high school graduation.

I found two poems... I found it interesting how similar feelings I had towards the end of my high school experience I am having now as college comes to a close.

The first poem is about celebrating yourself. The second refers to fears for the future. 
I hope you enjoy them!

I celebrate myself, and sing myself - 2007

I celebrate myself, and sing myself
I celebrate that teal describes who I am
Green and blue, but your never really sure which one
I like eating chips and salsa because it shows the spice in my life
But the smooth, cool ice cream also shows that I can still just chill
I take on challenges
And understand consequences
I try my hardest, even if I don’t succeed
I enjoy life and friends and memories
Busy describes my life
And full and complete describes my love
Times can be hard, but my friends are there
Even though it feels sometimes they just don’t care
I know the difference between those friends who are true and not
I enjoy a good laugh, but more so, a shoulder to understand
Pain is hard, but you can get thought it
And your attitude has a lot to do it
Parties are fun with lots of people
But sometimes small groups are exciting and more personal
I am friendly and caring
I enjoy meeting new people
And this is just the beginning


When I have fears that I may cease to be
(a) When I have fears that I may cease to be
(b) Before my sleepily eyes I do rest,
(a) For the stage lights will then never know me,
(b) For they would surely have not seen my best,
(c) The types of people I may never see,
(d) My family, my friends, my love somewhere,
(c) The waves of love roaring across the sea,
(d) Nor the glow of a gown of white to wear,
(e) And when I leave this earth to fly abroad,
(f) Legacies only I can leave behind,
(e) People think of me with a pleasant thought,
(f) Before the end, coming soon, of my time,
(g) One life ends to begin a life anew,
(g) My joyful look says simply I love you.


Friday, July 2, 2010

One Person Can Change the World

I am only one, but still I am one. I cannot do everything, but still I can do something. And because I cannot do everything, I will not refuse to do the something I can do.”
~ Edward Hale

I recently re-found this quote. I used in a paper that I wrote in high school that I happened to stumble upon.

This quote can go in a lot of different directions. But, there are a few particular things that stand out. 

Society today has a mindset that what we do does not matter nor does it made a difference to anyone else. It saddens me greatly to think that people feel this way, especially in a time where there is so many ways to communicate and connect with others. Society today also tries to tell us that not even everyone's life is worth it! 

I've heard that there are six degrees of separation between everyone! And with the growth of the internet and modern technology, think about how much smaller the world is becoming! 

Everyone's actions changes those around them. And with six degrees of separation, that could go a long way. A simple smile in the grocery store when you are having a bad day makes that day a better one. A hug from a friend when you are lonely can be a God-send! 


Even people who society considers outcasts and of no use can change people lives!
My mom and brothers are the perfect example of this. 
When I was growing up, many people would come up to my mom and say "Oh, are they ALL your kids?" and my mom would answer, "Yes!". People seemed shocked and would continue to ask "Are they adopted?" And of course my mom responded, "Nope, they are all mine!"
People seemed shocked that my mom would want to continue to have kids even after her second child had disabilities. But, without my mom having each of her children, even the ones that she miscarried, I would not have become the woman I am today. 
I would have a different view of the world. My friends would not have been able to hang out at my house and see all the fun chaos that I grew up in!
And, at my little brother's funeral, the Church would not have been so full that there was barely any standing room.

So, if you ask me, everyone's life is important and crucial to the life of everyone else. Each decision made has an impact on those around you. 

I will do what I can, and I will do the rest "Through Christ Who Strengthens Me." (Philippians 4:13.)


Saturday, June 5, 2010

IPad, Apple's Baby

Today, I stumbled upon an amazing video!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ulV5LDwdn8Y

With the new IPad that recently came out, Apple has fallen into the world of new parents. With this ad, Apple talks about the adventures of a brand new baby, a REALLY BRAND NEW BABY! One that hasn't even been born yet!

How cool is that??? IPad is helping people relate even more personally to their unborn child and showing life at the VERY beginning!

The bond between the parents and the new baby is extremely important! The bond is even more strong between the baby and his or her mother! How exciting is it that Apple is helping families become closer even earlier now!!!!

Thank you Apple!!!!


Thursday, June 3, 2010

The Best and Worst Time

I have a new article up on iibloom.com!

You can find it at this link:
http://www.iibloom.com/?/bloom/article/a-real-life-story-best-and-worst-time/


Thursday, May 13, 2010

You're TOO Young...

You're too young... It seems to be a phrase that is used very often around me. 


Normally, the conversation includes something like this:
Other person: "Wow, you look so young to have/be...., How old are you?"
Me: "I'm 20."
Other: "Wow, you're soooo young... "


With turning 21 at the end of this month, I have been thinking about everything that I have done in my life thus far, and looking forward to life a head of me. 
A lot of people seem shocked at my age. Over and over and over. It seems to be a continuos cycle. I often get asked about why I decided to get married so young or why I'm not "trying to enjoy my college life more". I have always been stunned by this. 


Throughout my life, I have often been told by people who are older than I am that I am very mature for my age, which is probably from my family's situation. So, I find it very interesting when people that I am meeting now, who do not know my history or family, always ask me if I think I'm too young. I always answer with "Not everyone is called to marriage this young, but I am sure I made the right choice." As coworkers, and others, continue to ask questions about why, my family's story start to emerge. I truly think that God has called me to be an example to others of how to live a happy and fulfilling life. Many people ask me why I am "throwing my life away" by getting married and that I'll miss out on having fun.  I find my life fun, full of responsibility, but fun. And I wouldn't change my decision to get married young, even though it means making a lot of sacrifices at some points. 


I have found one Bible verse in particular to be my motto in life:
"Do not let anyone treat you as if you are unimportant because you are young. Instead, be an example to the believers with your words, your actions, your love, your faith, and your pure life." ~~~~   1 Timothy 4:12


I try to live my life so that I can be an example. God has graced me with a family that makes it very easy for my decisions to be visible. Through the examples of my parents, I strive to live my life in a way that I can point people to God. I find it important to leave my life in God's hands because every time I have left my life in God's hands and have tried to align my will to His will, He has planned something more wonderful than I could have imagined, even though there are many parts of His plan that I do not fully understand nor do I know the full effects of the result of be putting my life in His hands. 


The results of following God's plan, even if it means sacrifice at the time or being uncomfortable, will be far more rewarding than any form of instant gratification or "fun" that I may have encountered by following my own frivolous desires. 


Many people are shocked by everything  I have done in my life, and I think that is because God shocks people with His will. I hope to be able to continue to life my life following His plan so that I will be able to bring more people to understanding true love and responsibility; how they go hand in hand and how they are not a hinderance to a happy and fulfilling life.

Sunday, April 18, 2010

A NEW ARTICLE

As graduation comes closer, God is working on my life. He is constantly helping guide me to become a better person, to be the person he wants me to be...
Through my life journey, I hope to inspire those who need it, those who don't know they need it, and those who have had to overcome obstacles. Even though my story is unique, just like everyone else's, hopefully many people will be able to connect to the story and hopefully it will help them in their time of need!

Today was another exciting step that God has guided me to. I had an article go Live on www.iibloom.com ! Please check it out!
www.iibloom.com

Monday, March 29, 2010

I love BLUE

Today, my friend, Tasha, and I were hanging out. For some reason or another, color and what colors mean came up in the conversation. 


I decided to look up my favorite color, blue. I love every shade of blue. I used blue for my wedding colors, and if you looked at our gift registries, most of the items were a shade of blue. So, when I looked up what the color blue means, I was surprised at what I found. 


According to Emily Gems' meanings of colors, Blue means....
"Blue is the coolest color - the color of the sky, ocean, sleep, twilight. The ancient Egyptians used lapis lazuli to represent heaven. Blue symbolizes the Virgin Mary. A pure blue is the color of inspiration, sincerity and spirituality. Blue is often the chosen color by conservative people. Blue is the calming color. That makes it a wonderful color to use in the home, especially for babies. Blue is so soothing that is a good choice for pajamas. Dark blue is the color of truth and moderation. A blue iris means your friendship is very important to me. Wednesday's color is blue. Blue gemstones to wear to feel calm are blue sapphire and blue topaz."


"Blue Energy

Blue gives a feeling of distance. Artists use it to to show perspective. This is a good way to understand the energy of the color blue - it allows us to look beyond and increase our perspective outward. It contains a cool vibration that is helpful to communication.
The vibration if blue can be used to open energy flow where it is blocked. Using blue to relax will encourage feelings of communication and peace.
Put some blue in your life when you want:
  • calm and relaxation to counteract chaos or agitation
  • to open the flow of communication
  • to broaden your perspective in learning new information
  • solitude and peace "
As I was reading this, the first thing that hit me was how blue symbolizes the Virgin Mary. As a wife, and hopefully, God willing, a mother as well, the Virgin Mary is definitely someone who I should try to follow. By surrounding myself with blue, I can remind myself to be more like the Virgin Mary, Completely obedient to God's will, always. 

Another thing about the color blue that I found interesting is that blue is the color for inspiration, sincerity, and spirituality. I hope that my life can inspire others with my life. I try to always be sincere in all of my relationships and in every situation. I hope to bring spirituality into every aspect of my life, even the day to day things, such as work and chores. 

Another cool thing that blue does is it can be used to encourage feelings of communication. Communication is key in all aspects of life. By surrounding yourself with blue, it can opens up communication in situations that can often be rough and calm them down and allow the communication flow better. 
In my life, using blue for calm and relaxation in order to counteract chaos is a very good plan. My life is always full of chaos, and by surrounding myself with the color blue, I can remind myself to act like the Virgin Mary.






site used: http://crystal-cure.com/blue.html

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

The Business of Being Pregnant in America

One of my classes this past quarter was a documentaries class. In this class we studied documentaries and learned a lot about them. For our final, we were given the option to write a paper. Therefore, I chose to watch two documentaries and compare the way they approached the documentary.

Personally, I enjoyed both of these documentaries and I watched them with my husband, who also got a lot out of the documentaries. I would recommend watching these two documentaries, especially if you are married or expecting a child. 

The Business of Being Pregnant in America


The two documentaries that I chose to watch were The Business of Being Born and Pregnant in America, a nation's miscarriage. Both of these documentaries were recording the present. In both of these documentaries, one of the main people involved in the documentary was pregnant. Although they did talk about things in the past that affect the way we behave today, other than listing off of facts and situations that happened, most of the storyline was in the present. Although each one went about discovering the health care system in America in different ways, they followed the journey of women who were trying to figure out the best way for them to give birth, both with surprise endings to both the people involved and the audience. In both of these documentaries the filmmakers were trying to tell the audience about the fall of the health care system in America and the need to look closely at all of the options that one has when they are pregnant and preparing for giving birth to a child.

Both documentaries definitely used visual evidence in their documentary as well as b-roll or illustrations. In The Business of Being Born, they followed stories of women such as Jen. In addition to Jen's interviews, they showed actual footage of Jen and her midwife going on check-ups. When they interviewed the producer, Ricki Lake, who was also pregnant, they showed pictures of her previous pregnancy when she was describing her first child. In the documentary Pregnant in America, they took a different approach because it was Mandy's first child. In Pregnant in America, Mandy and her husband go all around the world trying to understand the medical health care system in other countries. One of the countries they went to was Holland. In Holland they mainly have home births and a few cases actually get moved over to the regular hospital. When they traveled to Holland, they followed the doctor around to each house after the mother had given birth. This visual evidence of how maternity care is different was also displayed when they went back to his office and spoke with people that were his patients. Unlike the people in America that they interviewed, all of the women in Holland thought you only go to the hospital if something goes wrong. While they were talking about all of this, they showed the doctor actually taking care of the mother and baby and what the prenatal care was like. Both of these films did use b-roll as well as illustrations during some parts of the documentary for different reasons.
In both the Business of Being Born and Pregnant in America, the documentarians are trying to make us rethink the healthcare system, however, they go about it using different techniques. In The Business of Being Born they are trying to make us nervous about the hospitals and how hospitals are working. They showed examples of what happened in the early 1900s and spent a lot of time talking about specifics of what happened in the change from midwifes to hospitals and doctors and what lead us to where we are today. In Pregnant in America, they take you into other parts of the world and try to get the audience to see the difference in mindset that other countries have about birth. They want women to feel embowered through being able to give birth naturally and through the documentary they continue to talk about the importance of being able to birth naturally and that women look like a “birth warrior” when they are giving birth and how breathtaking the moments of birth are that you miss when you are on drugs given at the hospital. They also stress the privacy of giving birth at home.

In The Business of Being Born, the idea is to make a documentary about the options that women have when they are pregnant and how to show the importance of giving birth naturally instead of the dissatisfying experience that many Americans have when they are giving birth in hospitals with medications. In Pregnant in America, the idea is to make a documentary about what Americans think of giving birth and comparing that to what the rest of the world thinks about giving birth and to show the misconceptions that are given to American mothers and the present day problems that occur through the regular health care system.

The concept for The Business of Being Born is to show and portray the importance of giving birth naturally. We would do this through talking about the past and how we got to the hospitalized maternity world. Also, through talking to experts about their experiences and to talk about the fulfillment you feel when you give birth naturally and what you lose when you do not. We will do this through visual evidence, such as footage, past and present, and interviewed with professionals as well as moms who are and are not currently pregnant.

The concept for Pregnant in America is to go through the documentary during the time of Mandy's pregnancy. During her pregnancy, they will go around American cities and ask what they think of labor. Then, go to other countries, such as Holland, and ask the people their what they think the norm is for pregnancy and labor. During this time, we will also talk to people who have lost loved ones through modern medication that was supposed to help them and by using medication that is not supposed not supposed to be used by pregnant women.

In The Business of Being Born, the beginning shows a midwife preparing to go to a woman's house for the birth of a child. It then talks about what people originally think of when they think about having a midwife. It talks about questioning ourselves about maternal health care. Towards the middle it starts to show the evidence on how important natural birth is and what home births are like. It also gives facts throughout about what maternity care is like in America. The conflict talks about the old health care systems and how the health care systems got to get the publicity that it has today and how midwifery has disappeared. At the end of the documentary, it does leave you to figure out that the evidence given to you to understand the importance of natural births to women.

In Pregnant in America, the movie starts out with a women talking about how she is newly pregnant and wants to decide what way is better to deliver her baby. They present the American's view points and experiences and these interviews continue through the documentary. They present evidence of the importance of natural birth coming from not only American's perspective but also other countries around the world. They continue on through to show the controversy with the medications and the misuse of the medications. They also end with leaving all the evidence up to the audience to decide. Interestingly, both of these documentaries end with the women in the hospital. In The Business of Being Born, she ends up needing a C-section for medical reasons and complications. In Pregnant in America, she gives birth at home, and later on goes into the hospital because something wasn't right with the baby anymore. After seven days she came home with the baby, and the hospital never told them what really was wrong with their child. During the credits of Pregnant in America, it continues to tell about what is happening in the lives of the people that they interviewed throughout the documentary after the documentary was done being filmed and put together.

In The Business of Being Born, the interviews were used to carry the whole story. They were played over visual evidence and b-roll. However, in Pregnant in America, the interviews were important, but Mandy's husband was the primary narrator and driver of the story. All of the interviews were to back up what he said.

Both of these documentaries presents a credible argument. They showed visual evidence to add onto what the medical professionals, as well as everyone who was interviewed, were talking about. They both talked about the viewpoints of the hospitals. I found it interesting that both of these documentarians about giving birth naturally and at home ended in the hospital, however, it does show that what they were saying was right. Both of the arguments were that it is better for the woman and the baby to give birth naturally, and if there is a complication, then to allow medical science to take over in order to save the baby and mother's life. Especially in Pregnant in America, they stress the spiritual and emotional needs of the woman and baby to have the child naturally if they are able to. They also stress how women were made to be able to do this, it is something they can do, and when it comes down to it, women are the only ones who can give birth.

There are ethical issues that were addressed in both of these documentaries. This had to do with the “almighty dollar” and whether or not hospitals were trying to get more money faster and efficiently verse natural birth that could take a lot of time. These issues were addressed in the documentaries. In The Business of Being Born, they actually talk to nurses about how it is part of the hospital training to induce labor whenever possible. In Pregnant in America, they address the emotional and spiritual aspects of the natural birthing and the bond between the mother and baby. They also address that the medications that are given to women in order for them to go into labor, is nothing compared to the natural cocktail of hormones that allows the woman and child to bond and allows for the attachment that is needed between the mother and the baby.

The Business of Being Born, was a very professional way of making a documentary. They had very few handheld shots and was filmed similarly to the way a movie would be filmed. I think this added to the professional of the film and when a film is professional the audience tends to believe what it is saying with less hesitation. However, Pregnant in America, was a mix of both handheld shots and steady shots. The framing of interviews also tended to be a lot closer up on the people then other documentarians normally position the cameras. However, for this particular documentary I definitely think it added to the documentary and the authenticity of it. It is a husband, who at the end of the documentary dedicates it to his grandmother, mother, wife, child, and to all women and children. If he were to have professional shots there would be no way I would believe that it was an authentic interpretation. Also, in some scenes all you see is a the bottom of a wood receptionist desk. This is when doctors and employees of hospitals did not want what they said to be recorded. So they asked them to put down the camera. However, he choose to put down the camera with it still on and not to cover it up with b-roll. I felt this was a very strong visualization of how much hospital personnel do not want to deal with these situations.

Overall, I felt that both of these documentaries accomplished their goals and were very educational. I found the extremely captivating. I watched these documentaries with my husband and while we were watching them and after we finished watching them we were talking about the documentary and what we thought we should do when we have to make decisions on prenatal care. I would definitely suggest both of these documentaries to people who are pregnant or plan on being pregnant with in a few years. They make points not only on the physical elements, but also the emotional and spiritual side of this issue that most people in today's society forget about when they think about labor.

I was surprised about how similar these two documentaries view points were. However, I loved that there were two different stories happening and different stories, even if they are on the same subject, can allow different emotions to take over an audience.